tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post2738199026839030581..comments2023-03-26T04:04:00.876-07:00Comments on Life after the death of a toddler: What Did Megan Olivia M. die from?Jennyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13964282196898709053noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-69475918944031164172016-06-21T06:51:11.223-07:002016-06-21T06:51:11.223-07:00I have a little boy named darien alister,he just p...I have a little boy named darien alister,he just passed away last June 8 2016.He's a very energetic boy,funny,loveable very sweet, healthy, polite, his bday will be on July 10 and he'll be 4 and he's suppose to go to school this Sept. And he's so excited. He even told me what he wants on his bday a spiderman cake and spiderman drum. He loves that character so much his favorite color is red. We had all the plans for his bday. I just put him to bed on Tuesday night June 7 found him dead the next morning.a healthy little angel who just wanted to sleep. He even did a video of running man on that night. We didnt even know that will be his last video. We called him our running man.Doctor didn't know the cause of his death. They did the autopsy in the afternoon and called us the next day, and they said that they didn't get anything, test result is unknown.it's very hard for me as a mother not saying goodbye or how much you love him everyday of your life. I miss his hugs and kisses his voice saying I love you mom everyday and it kills me thinking that his not coming back anymore. I keep on praying everyday that this is just one bad dream and I will wake up and see my little boy again. Up to now still waiting for the result doctor said that they will run some other tests. Rip my running man we love and miss you soo much!!!!!❤❤❤❤Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00721295868776030432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-56153780384063361352016-05-08T01:27:15.772-07:002016-05-08T01:27:15.772-07:00"So many people do all the right things and y..."So many people do all the right things and yet their children still die."<br />Yes. Yes. I wish I could let go of the what ifs and the judgement of others. <br />I KNOW I was a good mother, that I did all the right things. But I hope I can believe it as well, one day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-53302260292438269772015-11-27T20:08:10.805-08:002015-11-27T20:08:10.805-08:00My 17 month daughter died in her sleep on 11/11/20...My 17 month daughter died in her sleep on 11/11/2015 she was healthy happy and very smart she was never sick it hurts so bad to find your child dead in her crib my heart is so broken I miss her so much. Still waiting on her autopsy report. I just wanna know why she died I can't sleep nor eat she was my everything.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13401369667322093838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-49285146863505809172014-05-10T09:50:43.715-07:002014-05-10T09:50:43.715-07:00Jenny,
I love how happy you look in your profile ...Jenny,<br /><br />I love how happy you look in your profile picture. I know the journey to your new happiness wasn't easy. I have been checking your blog periodically ever since your first post on the Mothering grief forum after Megan's loss http://www.mothering.com/community/t/1213457/i-am-lost-updated. Your story touched me profoundly. I lost my precious baby girl Zoe in 2001.<br /><br />I am curious about the vaccine connection and if you feel it was a factor in Megan's death. Encephalitis (brain inflammation) is linked to the pertussis vaccine http://www.greatergoodmovie.org/TGG/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/GGFastFactsPostcard-2013-4-20.pdf,<br />and in your above post you mentioned that Megan was given her 4th DTaP vaccine the day before her death, that preliminary autopsy results showed there was "cloudy fluid around her heart and her brain was slightly enlarged", which would indicate brain inflammation and that you filed a VAERS (Vaccine Adverse Reaction) report. <br /><br />Can you please share your feelings as to whether the vaccine was a factor in Megan's SUDS death? <br /><br />Thank you, my thoughts and prayers are always with you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04835735634943145304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-25625847731967407022013-08-12T16:47:09.320-07:002013-08-12T16:47:09.320-07:00I have a heart condition called prolonged qt syndr...I have a heart condition called prolonged qt syndrome there are many types I have type 2. But thrre is type 3 that when your heart is beating slow it can stop its genetic. I have a friend who's 14 month old died from that. Prolonged qt syndrome is a defect in the electric function in the heartAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-136215759315289132013-06-20T13:07:49.372-07:002013-06-20T13:07:49.372-07:00My little girl was 22 months old when she passed a...My little girl was 22 months old when she passed away in her sleep in 2012. <br />All you said is true and it is sooo frustrating when people ask or refer to the preventative measures for SIDS. My LG could of jumped out of her cot if she really wanted to. Something has just stopped working to make her go to sleep and drift away. Dear me, its hard... But i am so blessed to have known her and i am sooo proud to b her "umm" hehe as she called me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-36297021264538734212012-03-14T10:27:05.464-07:002012-03-14T10:27:05.464-07:00My 14 month old daughter died almost a month ago w...My 14 month old daughter died almost a month ago while she was taking a nap. I put her down at 11:30am and 2 hours later when I went in to check on her, she had already passed. We haven't got the result back from the medical examiner's office, so we don't know what the cause is. It is very sad and I know exactly how you feel.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-49149702976034121902011-04-13T15:36:01.684-07:002011-04-13T15:36:01.684-07:00I added Megan to my list ♥I added Megan to my list ♥Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-81200567404856586422011-04-13T15:35:30.333-07:002011-04-13T15:35:30.333-07:00It's so scary to think that your baby could di...It's so scary to think that your baby could die at anytime, even after a year. Such a paralyzing fear. I wish that this didn't happen. No parent should have to endure this.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-732774325516406842.post-35003818853183927142011-04-07T10:42:10.232-07:002011-04-07T10:42:10.232-07:00Yes, it happens to adults too SUDS - Sudden Unexpl...Yes, it happens to adults too SUDS - Sudden Unexplained Death Syndrome. I think you hear more about SIDS because it is more common and because there are measures you can take to lower your risk - but even breastfed babies, in their own crib, in their parents room, with no smokers in a 100 miles, sleeping on their back, still die of SIDS.<br /><br />Jenny - my heart goes out to you. I think it is just normal to torture ourselves with this. I know why Catherine died. I have the name of the infection, and a acause of death on her death certificate. Does it help? Not really. I still want to ask - but WHY DID SHE GET IT? Why did she die when every other child I know is still alive?<br /><br />There was a mum at our graveyard who was desperate to know what her son had died of - I kept wonderfing if it would help her. In the end, I don't think we ever get a satisfactory answer to the WHY question.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08189847375191755096noreply@blogger.com